Category Archives: Give me the Strength

I’m Going To Go To Best Buy More Often

Very interesting lol


NOT Grown and Sexy » What’s Wrong With This Picture???

From Bossip and All The Parties.com

This is not grown nor is it sexy. She is doing her thing though, no problem with that, but that’s stuff you keep on the private. How it made its way onto the interwebz I don’t know.

As a guy, I have to say that I am not impressed… now if she gave me a 3/4 view from the back then maybe that would work better. lol

I don’t know… maybe I’m just too into tech, fashion and things that will help make life better (of which includes staring my own business, understanding how money/finance works and politics).

ANYWAY, IN OTHER NEWS:

I will be posting allot in the coming weeks. some stuff you will see and others you won’t until sometime later. I got soe real cool plans for this blog. Mostly it will be a focus on tech and fashion, but will interject from time to time other issues that effect the grown and sexy of which is money, housing, family and politics (come on people, closed mouthes don’t get feed).

I hope you enjoy my nerdy tech and fashion blog… with an attitude.

Oh and here is the link to the original story on the picture at the top:

Bossip » Archive » What’s Wrong With This Picture??


D-List Rappers Find Cache & Cash Abroad… DAMN LOL

I read this on ABC News and I though it was interesting and in some ways funny. NO, not because someone who had a taste of being on top in the entertainment world, but how there is somehow an implication of failure even though they seem to be doing quite well.

Heres a quote:

Coolio isn’t the only rapper finding a second act abroad: Vanilla Ice and Cisqo are now on tour in Australia. Like Hollywood actors whose stars fade — from David Hasselhoff of “Baywatch” to Tara Reid of “American Pie” — their stars still glimmer in other countries.

Source: ABC News

The Hoff, as he is known in Germany did incredibly well… nothing wrong with that and in fact it is very smart. So I say, “down with the idea of a D-List rapper” cause I never heard of that in my life. You either win in public or your win in private, but either way, you win. I guess it is when you win in private but not in public anymore that you are now considered lamer than the ones who “succeeded”.

Anyway, I’m rambling… I guess I am really sleepy. More at the link below:

ABC News: D-List Rappers Find Cache & Cash Abroad


ABC News: Is Hollywood Whitewashing Ethnic Roles?

You have got to read this:

The plot is based on the real-life story of Texas woman Chante Mallard, who, at age 27, was convicted of murder and evidence tampering, and given 50-year and 10-year concurrent sentences after she hit Gregory Biggs and left him to die stuck in her windshield.

Mallard is African-American. Suvari, the blonde, blue-eyed beauty from “American Beauty” and the “American Pie” movies, is not. But she does wear cornrows to play the role of Brandi.

I say Hollywood has the right to take some imagination to anything so for me the real question is how often is this done?

ABC News: Is Hollywood Whitewashing Ethnic Roles?


Debt-squeezed Gen X saves little… Oh Good Lawd We In Trouble

Ladies and gentlmen, those in their late 20′s and early 30′s, guess what? We are in trouble.

Long ago our parents used to automattically get those pension checks. Back when we were born in the late 70′s and early 80′s (what makes a generation anyway lol) 68% of workers had pensions for security, but now that number is reversed. Basically 68% DON’T have pensions at all. The only reason why so many of us have 401K is because of a law passed in Congress back in 2006 that made is super easy to get it from work.

And don’t get me started at employee loyalty… you should expect , unless you have a union (and maybe not even then) to possibly find yourself unemployed. I try to tell my fellow peoples that depending on which state you live in, you don’t really have a right to a job. In other words, an employer can fire you just because they wan to (the reason why they don’t is that they don’t want a bad rep and the lawsuits cost money even if they win).

By the way, do you have a Roth Ira? I don’t (yet) and many of us, especially the grown and sexy, do not either. I would like to think I would have done better than most considering my financail abilities, but guess what?

So now I’m in a worst senerio; basically starting over at 30.  Lost my job at the worst time (2001 August) and had credit card debt that ballooned after not finding work that paid more than 15K a year (living in NYC on 15K is not fun) and yes I have a full  year college degree. The good news is that I learned one very important thing: do not depend on your job or a check. You have to, I repeat YOU HAVE TO figure out how your money will work for you. 401k’s, 457k’s, IRA’s IRA Roths and those “retire in this many years” mutual funds. to start with it something to think about but that is just the beginning.

Buying a House an Automatic Investment… NOT

Buying a house IS NOT an investment UNLESS you figure out a way to make it one. Just because you have equity in your home doesn’t make the home a asset either. Why? Because how much money has to come out of your pocket before you get to use this equity? What do you have to do to get the equity out? Another loan right? hat do you do with this money? The only real answers should be 401K, refurbish the house, small business investment, or education, NOT buy a car, pay off credit card and such.

Don’t get me wrong, getting a house is a good move when you think about your move. Its hard to go wrong with it especially if you pay 6-7 hundred dollar rent in your area and that is what your monthly payment would be on your own house (including all taxes and interest on the loan). Also, if the houses are too expensive where you live try to think about getting something somewhere else if you can. I am. My house will most likely be in some other state. I live in NYC, one of the most expensive place to live in the US. No way I’m buying a 600,000 to 800,000 dollar house that only has 2 bedrooms lol.

Houses around my way are in the 700-900 thousand range. Some are in the million range. believe me when i say this, those houses are NOT worth that. And so what that they have the ability to be a 4 family house. The rent would have to be 2500 a month for each to pay the mortgage… and no that doesn’t include all the NYC taxes.

Its not to late my grown and sexy people!!!

It is never too late to find out about how this money thing works. You need to just like I do. We all spend it, use it, save it and try to invest it. You should know what a 5 year ARM is, what a CD is, what ratios can be used to look at a financial statement, what APR is, and so forth. What’s an IRA Roth? What’s a small cap mutual fund? I highly suggest that you look into creating your own business part time. Do not be afraid of failure! You are not in school anymore and the Bell Curve does not apply in real life. You fail when you do not learn from what went wrong.

Don’t worry my gown and sexy peoples!!!!!11!1!!1!11! I’m learning too and its why I created this blog. While I’m learning this stuff and, in some ways, create a little knowledge base of terms for myself, I totally expect you to look around  as well.

Besides, why shouldn’t fashion tech and money go together?


Comment Of The Day by Mets4ever on “Cop bungle almost new Sean Bell case”

Good lawd… while I think this is exaggerate just a tad (I don’t think 50 bullets would have been fired here) I did read something that I personally have been trying to get my fellow brothers and sisters to get:

Mets4ever May 12, 2008 4:18:26 PM Report Offensive Post

>>>>Sports……Excerpt from a J. Whitlock column………………Thank you, Don Imus. You’ve given us (black people) an excuse to avoid our real problem…..we can once again wallow in victimhood, protest like it’s 1965 and delude ourselves into believing that fixing your hatred is more necessary than eradicating our self-hatred…I’m sure at least one of the marvelous young women on the Rutgers basketball team is somewhere snapping her fingers to the beat of 50 Cent’s or Snoop Dogg’s latest ode glorifying nappy-headed pimps and hos. I ain’t saying Jesse, Al and Vivian are gold-diggas, but they don’t have the heart to mount a legitimate campaign against the real black-folk killas. It is us. At this time, we are our own worst enemies. We have allowed our youths to buy into a culture (hip hop) that has been perverted, corrupted and overtaken by prison culture. The music, attitude and behavior expressed in this culture is anti-black, anti-education, demeaning, self-destructive, pro-music, attitude and behavior expressed in this culture is anti-black, anti-education, demeaning, self-destructive, pro-drug dealing and violent. Rather than confront this heinous enemy from within, we sit back and wait for someone like Imus to have a slip of the tongue and make the mistake of repeating the things we say about ourselves. It’s embarrassing………………………………………………………………………………..J. Whitlock Sports……Do you agree with any of this. Im not picking a fight but from what I can determine, you make the most sense at of a few of these bloggers and I think you are competent enough to be open minded.

But the question is what do you think? I think the great debate in the black community will be starting to climb (I hope).

Source: Daily News – Cop bungle almost new Sean Bell case, says Brooklyn senator


I Don’t Understand This: Light skin Party

Some one please explain this to me.

“I made a mistake,” Barnes said. “I didn’t think there would be a backlash.”

Barnes, who said he’s been a party promoter for six years, canceled the event.

He said he has gotten angry calls and e-mails from around the country about the party.
“I didn’t mean to offend anyone,” he said. “I had planned a party for other shades (of black women). We were going to take a shade of color each week. Next week was going to be a party for ‘Sexy Chocolate’ and the week after that ‘Sexy Caramel.’ ”

Unbelievable… 


‘God-o-Meter’??? LOL: 08 White House hopefuls rated on religion

 This is absolutly insane. I guess many people were interested in it though because it is the top blog post for today.

Heck, I’ll admit I find it interesting myself. Of course I have my opinion on this, but I think I’ll keep that to myself (for now at least) .

CNN.com – CNN Political Ticker ‘08 White House hopefuls rated on ‘God-o-Meter’ «


Would U Wear This? Worst in Show from Nice Kicks

 Kashi Kicks

 Great Ceasar’s Ghost…

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Britney and the VMA’s… again…

Britney Spears VMA 2007 “Gimme More” UNCENSORED VERSION

Great Cesear’s Ghost…


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